Concepts, defined
The language of the book, in one place. Each term links to a fuller explanation — a reference for readers and a map for the curious.
Identity-Based Change
A model of behaviour change that edits self-image first, on the premise that behaviour follows identity rather than the reverse.
Self-Image
The internal picture of who you are that silently determines which behaviours feel natural and which feel like 'not me.'
The ENGINE Method
A six-stage protocol — Excavate, Name, Ground, Install, Neutralise, Embody — for installing a new identity step by step.
Master Identity Loop
The self-reinforcing cycle in which identity drives behaviour, behaviour becomes evidence, and evidence strengthens identity.
K.L.A.R. Framework
A four-part framework — Clarity, Loops, Alignment, Resilience — for keeping identity-based change stable over time.
Willpower Depletion
The tendency for effort-based self-control to run out precisely when demands are highest, causing discipline systems to fail on schedule.
Identity Vote
The idea that every small action counts as a vote for the identity that action belongs to.
Keystone Identity
An identity whose adoption naturally pulls many other behaviours into alignment, making broad change more efficient.
Outcome Goal
A goal defined by a result to be achieved, contrasted in the book with identity-based goals defined by who you become.
Identity Resistance
The discomfort produced when behaviour contradicts an established self-image; a signal of change in progress, not of failure.
Self-Story
The narrative a person carries about who they are, assembled largely without conscious choice and reinforced by self-talk.
Evidence Loop
The mechanism by which small actions become proof that reshapes self-image over time.
Embodiment
The final stage of identity change, where a new self-image stops feeling like effort and simply becomes who you are.
Behavioural Consistency
The mind's drive to keep actions aligned with self-image, which stabilises habits but also resists change.
Identity Scaffolding
The temporary use of discipline to support a new identity until it can hold itself up.